There is that person who will always keep you up in life. Another life, a better life. They create a strong basis for our social life. A mutual closeness to express to one another at a deeper level is achieved in the long run.
“Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings” -Miles Franklin
The way we relate with people says alot about us. Relationships can help us shape our personalities if well expressed. As a result, relationships become quite significant in the human life. However, in some instances we wake up in relationships that play out to be draining our energy. Then you are left to fight with your mind whether to let go or hang on. Fun indeed, but that is life and calls for balance in everything. In our day to day relations we learn alot, about others but much about us. Meeting people of all caliber whilst getting along well is no joke. You’ll meet meek, kind, generous, terrible people with “sick manifestations”, lunatics, narcissists, a few neutral beings and those with a cocktail of personalities. Othertimes you’ll meet friends who are mean even with ideas. They cooperate under-presser and mostly inactive in discussions. In group relationship(s), communication works to be the deal to stem a strong bond.
“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are” -Donald Miller
A relationship is built within an environment. The environment ought to be conducive for the relationship to thrive. You will need tools like ineterpersonal skills, an open mind and communication among others to create the environment. We live to solve things each day throughout life. Therefore, everyday is a new day. That calls for renewed energy each day. And probably that’s why we find it hard to cope with the same person everyday. But then, a balance of things is necessary in this life. Mistakes are there and it’s natural, my opinion, and normal to mess sometimes. However, owning your flaws and getting up helps solve issues fast.
“If you would be loved, love, and be loveable” -Benjamin Franklin
For the one person who is always there, cheers to a better life. These people are good for a better self-esteem, a rare thing in a toxic relationship. They’ll help you to understand yourself better and see things in a positive way. Relationships work better if all parties work close. Closeness and communication breath life into relationships.
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